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Success Lessons From Soccer - How To Win or Lose In The Game Of Life

Soccer matches are all about scoring goalsA key factor in his success in England is his
and being winners. As a result, soccer canself-belief and a rich Russian backer who
hold up a mirror to life since many humansallows him to buy the best players in Europe.
also want to achieve goals and to be winnersYou can safely bet money that Chelsea will
in the game of life. There is much to bewin almost all their matches. The odds are
learned about life in general from soccernot great but you could put £100 on
players, managers and commentators. When youChelsea to win and make an easy £26 from
listen to commentators on soccer matches, theyour bet. Of course, this does not always
key words they use again and again when teamswork out. No team is perfect! Mourinho is
are winning are words about character andpassionate about soccer but retains his sense
attitude like belief, excitement, confidence,of perspective and humour. Recently he was
effort and so on. Soccer skills andasked in London if he was concerned about
strategies are important but mean littlelosing the championship to his main rivals,
without the right attitude. Team managersManchester United. His reply was typical of
urge their players to show focus,him: "No, I'm more concerned about bird
determination and maximum effort. They tell'flu." The assembled press started laughing.
them they should expect to win and not to"Seriously; it's that swan in Scotland that
show too much respect for their opponents noconcerns me. It's not that far from here!"
matter how famous they are. I love listening(The swan was the first creature with bird
to the comments of the great soccer managers.'flu in the UK in 2006) Over the last few
They have all been to hell and back. They areweeks, his team, Chelsea, have been
praised and popular when their teams win.criticised for having players sent off for
They are criticised and even sacked whenbreaking the rules. When Jose was asked about
their teams fail to win. They know thehis success away from home against West Brom,
heights of elation and the depths of despair.he commented ironically: "Maybe we won
They have to find ways to deal with both andbecause we played with ten men. That is our
to keep motivating their teams to win. Gordonbest tactic at the moment." However, he
Strachan took over as manager of Celtic, onerealises that the main reason Chelsea win so
of the top two clubs in Scotland, in 2005. Itoften is as follows:"We have top players and,
was not long before he experienced "the worstsorry if I'm arrogant, we have a top
night of my life" Bratislava beat Celtic 5-0manager." Public confidence is so rare in
in the Champions league, the top Europeanthe UK that it is often mistaken for
competition. His watch stopped after thearrogance. Jose does not believe in having
match and he still wears it to remind himselffavourites; he believes in the power of the
that it was the worst night of his life.team rather than the individual: "I don't
Celtic, the pride of Scotland, had beenwant special relations with one of them (his
humiliated by a less famous team. Otherplayers). I hate to speak about individuals.
failures seemed small to him by comparison.Players don't win you trophies, teams win
We can all learn to deal with difficulttrophies, squads win trophies." Another
situations by reminding ourselves of worstgreat manager is Harry Redknapp of
situations in our past or by imagining howPortsmouth. He commented about his players in
much worse our lives could be than theya match with Burnley which ended in a 2-2
actually are. None of us knows for sure whatdraw: "When the crowd was on their backs no
will happen to us tomorrow. We could beone wanted to try anything in case they got
seriously ill or even dead. Gordon has facedbooed. They were defensive and wanted to
this possibility already. He told the mediaavoid mistakes." Harry understands human
that on his gravestone he would like thesepsychology. If we are too worried about
words carved: "This is better than thatappearing foolish or making mistakes we will
night in Bratislava." He uses the humour offail to make things happen and we will not
exaggeration to deal with the criticisms ofmake full use of our abilities. We go into
the media when things go wrong. A reporterour shells and play safe. I remember feeling
commented when his team lost a match inlike this when I played cricket at school. I
Scotland: "Bang, there goes your unbeatentried to avoid being anywhere near the ball
run. Can you take it? " "No," said Strachan.in case I dropped a catch. It was many years
"I'm just going to crumble like a wreck. I'llbefore I realised that I was quite good at
go home, become an alcoholic and maybe jumpcatching! A commentator remarked: "Harry
off a bridge. Hmmm….I think I can takeknows how to get his teams going and how to
it, yeah." He knows the importance ofrestore their confidence. Now they expect to
positive thinking if you wish to achievewin at Fratton Park (the Portsmouth ground).
success. One reporter foolishly asked:They firmly believe they will win." Recently
"There's no negative vibes or negativethey have won three games in a row and are on
feelings here?" Strachan replied: "Apart fromtheir way to escaping relegation to a lower
yourself, we're all quite positive rounddivision. Another manager, Stuart Pierce, of
here. I'm going to whack you over the headManchester City also knows the importance of
with a big stick; down negative man, down."confidence: "We need to go out and really
Strachan often speaks with disarming honestybelieve we can play a bit." What key success
and schoolboy cheek. He is ready to admitlessons can we learn from the above? Skill
that he and his players are not always atis important but attitude is even more
their best. He is ready to face reality.important. We should expect to win and not
Facing up to reality is a key characteristicshow too much respect for the obstacles in
of the successful. When he managed a team inour path whether they are human or otherwise
England, a reporter asked him: "So, Gordon,and whether they are real or imaginary. We
in what areas do you think Middlesbrough wereneed to believe in our own ability and expect
better than you today?" Strachan replied:to win even if this makes us seem arrogant.
"What areas? Mainly that big green one outWe should handle failures by reminding
there...." Strachan has had his defeats butourselves that things could be much worse.
recently he has led his latest team, Celtic,Retaining our sense of humour also helps.
to undisputed victory in the Scottish PremierTeamwork is a key factor in many types of
League. He is widely accepted as a greatachievement. We should not be worried about
manager. Another great manager now works inmaking mistakes whether we are playing soccer
the English Premier League. He is Joseor cricket or the game of life. We need to
Mourihno, the manager of Chelsea. He came toface up to reality and be willing to be
England in June 2004 and soon showed hisjudged by the results we achieve as well as
confidence in himself and his players. Hethe effort we put in. On the whole, I think,
wants only to be judged by the results. Athat the effort we expend is more important.
good manager wins. A bad one loses: "I'm notWe cannot always control the results but we
a defender of old or new football managers. Ican control the effort we put in. The same
believe in good ones and bad ones; those thatmanager can lose with one team and win with
achieve success and those that don't. Pleaseanother. He is still the same person and he
don't call me arrogant, but I'm Europeanstill made the same efforts. I'll leave you
champion and I think I'm a special one" Hewith a final quote from Gordon Strachan who
soon proved himself to be a 'special one' inhas been both a winning and a losing manager:
England as well as in Portugal, his nativeA reporter asked: "Gordon, can we have a
country. As the name 'the special one'quick word?" "Velocity", replied Gordon as he
suggests he believes in himself in a big way.walked off.



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